from collections import Counter
from itertools import chain
lst = [[1, 2, 6], [4, 5, 6], [1, 4, 7], [5, 3, 2], [9, 1, 3]]
count = Counter(chain.from_iterable(lst))
indexes = [i for i, x in enumerate(lst) if any(count[y] == 1 for y in x)]
print(indexes)
# index 2 for 7
# index 4 for 9
'''
run:
[2, 4]
'''